Sunday, January 11, 2009

New Years Resolution

So I have a new years resolution to help out anywhere/time I can (no matter how little) and was told by a friend to do something like this. This is for all those in a relationship, or who want one.

A strong, loving relationship is special. Most of the strongest relationships are based on emotional attachment rather than physical. That emotional attachment can be reached through talking as much and as often as possible…about anything and everything. Open relationships are a precursor to a long-lasting loving relationship. Guys treat your girlfriend with the utmost respect. Chivarly aint dead gentlemen. A girl likes to be treated nicely and pampered (then again, so do guys). Spoil her every one in a while..she deserves it. It shows her you care for her.

Girls (and most guys) want to cuddle. 99% of girls love it. Most would rather snuggle up with their man than say make out (obviously not all girls are like that but ya know) if your hanging out with your girlfriend and you want to have a great time just enjoy being with her without getting “involved”. This is a great way to build a strong relationship. After all, the sexual aspect of relationships can get boring fast…theres only so much variety possible. But if a relationship is built on a foundation of communication there is always a “fall-back” that will never get boring…it is impossible to run out of things to talk about. If your getting into a relationship, take your time; dont try to get in her pants on the first date…treat her like a lady and talk first.

Girls, kiss him. And not always on the lips. Guys dont want to be the only one showing affection. For guys, they dont want to feel like the only one “giving” the love..they want to receive love as well. For me, the cutest thing is when a girl kisses her boyfriend on the cheek…it shows they have a completely comfortable, loving relationship.

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